I have decided to write my story, on my blog, for my own remembrance and for the benefit of my children and their children and their children and so on and so on. These photos are not my own, but they represent exactly what I want.
Like Nephi of old, I was born of goodly parents. I had the BEST parents that anyone could ever have or want. They were always kind and good to me and to each other. In all of my days with them, I never heard a quarrel or an argument. I never heard them raise their voice. I only saw and heard them do good things for each other, for their children and grandchildren, and for everyone they knew. They were loved by many and many of my friends, as we were growing up, wanted them to be their own parents.
My father George Alexis Skopichenko (Scope after he became a US citizen) was born on February 13, 1913 in Samara, Russia. His mother was a Countess and his father was a General in the military. His grandfather Zavadovky was the Military Governor of Warsaw at one time. When the communists took over Russia, about 1917, his parents and siblings together with my father, fled Russia via the Trans-Siberian railway. They had to leave quickly and without anything. They had to burn any identifying papers or documents because if they were found with anything that tied them to the royal family, they would have been immediately executed. No questions would have been asked. They did take some money and jewels with them that the ladies had sewn into the hems of their coats. This is all they had to start their new life in China. In fact, my family later had self-imposed memory loss. They couldn't remember dates of birthdays, anniversaries, or other important events. They "forgot" places and things. They were afraid of being found out and executed. They fled because they did not want to live under Communist rule. My mother, Olga Germanovna Popoff was born on June 5, 1913 in Harbin, China. She was born to Russian parents who lived in China because her father worked in the diplomatic service.
I was born in Shanghai, China on June 25, 1944 in St Mary's Hospital. At this time, my father was a businessman. He was the owner a very nice delicatessen/import/export store. They had a lovely home on Rue de Soeurs in the French Concession. Life was very good for them. They were quite wealthy and so they could have a "boy", a maid, and an Ama, nursemaid, for each of their children, my brother Nikita and myself. They lived a life of fun and leisure. The women and children took their vacations in Harbin because it was too hot in Shanghai. The husbands traveled there on the week-ends and worked during the week. They had many friends and many good times. All of this changed as the Communists began to take over China. Wanting freedom and a good life for his family, my father booked first class passage to the USA. We were to travel with my mother's parents and were ready to begin a new life. Suddenly my parents received a letter from an uncle in Seattle, Washington warning them not to wait, but to book passage on the General Gordon. He told them that this would be the last ship to leave China for the USA because American Lines would be striking. My father did just that, but now we had third class passage. That is all that was left. The ship was packed. All of the women and children traveled in the hold where all of the cargo usually goes. I remember seeing wall to wall bunk beds with 2 people per bunk. My grandmother and brother were on top and my mom and I were on the bottom. It was dark, crowded, and stinky. Since my brother was just a year old guy, my grandmother tied him to her arm so that he would not fall off the bed at night. The men traveled on the passenger deck. The trip was rough and many, many people were very sick and confined to their cots. The women were given a bowl of rice each day for food and that was all. The men had better treatment and more food. I became very ill, but I was saved by my father and grandfather smuggling oranges to my mom and grandmother. My father or grandfather would take an orange and have it between their pants and waist. They would then go to the hole which the sailors use to slide down on. They would wait for either my mom or grandmother, although they too were so seasick, to come and stand by the pole on the lower level. Then they would release the orange and it would slide down their leg and down through the hole to the lower level where either my mom or grandmother would catch it. They then fed those oranges to me and that it what saved my life. I was told that they carried me very ill, listless and almost lifeless off the ship, but as we all know I survived. My brother, however, was well and full of life and activity. One of the sailors, a very large black man, took a liking to this lively little blond boy whose mom and grandmother were so ill. Each morning he would come and get him and take care of him all day. My mom said that at times he would let him climb the huge gate that covered the opening to the ocean. She would be so scared, but was too sick to do anything about it. Many spoke of the cute duo; a big black guy and his little blond companion. It was a blessing to have that dear man take such good care of my little brother.
This is a photo I found of Shanghai in the 1940's. We left in 1948.
This is a photo of the General Gordon.
As we came to the San Francisco Bay many of the passengers were allowed to go on deck to watch the ship go in. I remember so many people thrilled to see the beautiful bridge and the blue sky and the beautiful white city by the bay. They were sick and exhausted but so excited to begin a new life of freedom. I remember many falling to their knees and kissing the deck and exclaiming gratefulness to God for their safe journey.
When we arrived we were greeted by my grandmother's sister and her family who lived in Oakland. We stayed with them for about a month. After one week my father found a job working for the shipyards. After two weeks he bought a car and after three weeks he bought a little house. We moved to Richmond Annex and our journey in a new country began.
When we left China, my dad left his business, his home, and all of his things with his sister and her husband. They were to sell everything and send the money to him. Unfortunately, during the time that we were traveling by ship, my dad's brother -in- law had a heart attack and died. The communists came in and took everything away from his sister. She was a woman, after all, and women had no rights in China. And so, for the second time in his life, my father lost everything.