My Grandpa Gherman was a very kind and very learned man. He was Russian and of course spoke Russian. He also fluently spoke 5 oriental languages. He later learned and spoke perfect English. While Grandpa Gherman, or Deda, as we called him, was working in China and Mongolia in the diplomatic service, he also did work for the Japanese Emperor Hirohito. He did diplomatic work, translation work, and other missions whose origins we don't really know because he kept them secret.
At that time Japan had been in Manchuria for a long time since 1905 or so. They had established a protectorate and had a puppet king. From there they started invading the rest of China (Northern and Eastern). Finally, they were repulsed by the communists under Mao Tse Tung and the Nationalists under Chiang Kai Shek. The work that he did for Emperor Hirohito was very valuable and very pleasing to the Emperor. He wrote several letters of thanks and commendation to my grandpa and he also awarded him quite a large gold medal in the shape of the Japanese Sun. My grandfather treasured that medal and later gave it to my brother.
My grandparents were traveling across the Gobi Desert to a destination that I do not know. My grandmother had all of their important papers including the letters and the medal from Emperor Hirohito in her purse. Their company stopped for the night in a Chinese inn. They ate dinner and were relaxing for the evening. Baba Katya was sitting on a rocking chair and was knitting as they were all chatting together. Suddenly they heard a huge racket outside; horse hooves beating, loud shouting and yelling and the clanging of metal weapons. Baba Katya told me she didn't know why, but she picked her purse up off the floor next to her, sat up a bit, and put the purse under her. She was now sitting on the purse. The horses stopped and the Chinese communist troop jumped off them and slammed open the doors and barged into the inn. They searched the entire inn, every room, they looked through all the things and everyones baggage, and they bodily searched every person except for her. While they were there, she just sat there with her knitting in her lap and watched and waited. The men never touched her, never told her to get up and move, never said a work to her. When they were satisfied, they left as quickly as they came. When everyone was sure they were gone, my grandpa asked here where all of the documents and medal were. She pulled her purse out from under her and said, "Here they are. I was hiding them." What a huge relief came over the entire company. Had those papers been discovered and had that medal been seen, they would have all been killed. I know my grandparents were being protected by God.
Friday, March 22, 2013
Wednesday, March 20, 2013
The Chest
My mother's mother, my grandmother, Ekaterina (Katherine) Pavlovna Popoff was my favorite person in the whole wide world. She was a tiny little woman, barely 4 ft 10 inches, but she was mighty in her deeds. Her husband used to call her his pocket wife, because she was so little. He also used to always tell us that good things came in small packages. Katherine was the mother of 2 girls. She was always busy working and doing something. She devoted her life to her family, her children and grandchildren and to helping others who were in need. At the end of her life when she had so little, she still collected money and made things for those who were worse off than her. At one time she collected money and clothing to send to families in Europe who had nothing. When people donated clothing that was not very nice, she would repair and fix the clothing until they looked like new. She always taught me that it is important to help those who have less than we do. She was patriotic and always voted in all of the elections. She was proud to be and American and wanted to support her new government. Baba Katya, as we all called her, because Baba is the shortened form of grandmother in Russian and Katya because that is the affectionate way of saying Katherine in Russian, always taught us to never judge people and to love people from all walks of life and from all countries. She always said that you will find both good and bad people in any group or country.
She led an interesting life with many stories. I will write about one tonight.
Baba Katya's husband, my grandfather, Gherman Simonovich Popoff, was working in Mongolia. He was in charge of a very large operation and had many workers under him. When it was time to pay the workers, he was to pay them in gold. A large chest was filled with the gold and it was to be taken by a group of Chinese men in a caravan, through the Gobi desert, to the area where the men were working. Gherman asked his wife to go along and to oversee the caravan. This brave, little woman agreed to do it. The trip was not easy. She was the only white woman in a caravan of many Chinese men much bigger and stronger than her. They would be traveling through the desert for many days. The first day the leader of the caravan told her that she would be solely responsible for guarding the chest. Katya agreed and did this by riding in the wagon with the chest in it. At night she slept on the chest to keep everyone away from it and to protect it from robbery. It is hard to imagine that she did that and that it actually protected the gold. The men had so much respect for her, that they would not have dreamed of touching her or harming her in any way. Imagine how easy it would have been for anyone to get rid of her and to take the gold. And yet, they did not. She delivered the gold safely to her husband and to the workers.
She led an interesting life with many stories. I will write about one tonight.
Baba Katya's husband, my grandfather, Gherman Simonovich Popoff, was working in Mongolia. He was in charge of a very large operation and had many workers under him. When it was time to pay the workers, he was to pay them in gold. A large chest was filled with the gold and it was to be taken by a group of Chinese men in a caravan, through the Gobi desert, to the area where the men were working. Gherman asked his wife to go along and to oversee the caravan. This brave, little woman agreed to do it. The trip was not easy. She was the only white woman in a caravan of many Chinese men much bigger and stronger than her. They would be traveling through the desert for many days. The first day the leader of the caravan told her that she would be solely responsible for guarding the chest. Katya agreed and did this by riding in the wagon with the chest in it. At night she slept on the chest to keep everyone away from it and to protect it from robbery. It is hard to imagine that she did that and that it actually protected the gold. The men had so much respect for her, that they would not have dreamed of touching her or harming her in any way. Imagine how easy it would have been for anyone to get rid of her and to take the gold. And yet, they did not. She delivered the gold safely to her husband and to the workers.
Tuesday, March 19, 2013
Shanghai to San Francisco
I have decided to write my story, on my blog, for my own remembrance and for the benefit of my children and their children and their children and so on and so on. These photos are not my own, but they represent exactly what I want.
Like Nephi of old, I was born of goodly parents. I had the BEST parents that anyone could ever have or want. They were always kind and good to me and to each other. In all of my days with them, I never heard a quarrel or an argument. I never heard them raise their voice. I only saw and heard them do good things for each other, for their children and grandchildren, and for everyone they knew. They were loved by many and many of my friends, as we were growing up, wanted them to be their own parents.
My father George Alexis Skopichenko (Scope after he became a US citizen) was born on February 13, 1913 in Samara, Russia. His mother was a Countess and his father was a General in the military. His grandfather Zavadovky was the Military Governor of Warsaw at one time. When the communists took over Russia, about 1917, his parents and siblings together with my father, fled Russia via the Trans-Siberian railway. They had to leave quickly and without anything. They had to burn any identifying papers or documents because if they were found with anything that tied them to the royal family, they would have been immediately executed. No questions would have been asked. They did take some money and jewels with them that the ladies had sewn into the hems of their coats. This is all they had to start their new life in China. In fact, my family later had self-imposed memory loss. They couldn't remember dates of birthdays, anniversaries, or other important events. They "forgot" places and things. They were afraid of being found out and executed. They fled because they did not want to live under Communist rule. My mother, Olga Germanovna Popoff was born on June 5, 1913 in Harbin, China. She was born to Russian parents who lived in China because her father worked in the diplomatic service.
I was born in Shanghai, China on June 25, 1944 in St Mary's Hospital. At this time, my father was a businessman. He was the owner a very nice delicatessen/import/export store. They had a lovely home on Rue de Soeurs in the French Concession. Life was very good for them. They were quite wealthy and so they could have a "boy", a maid, and an Ama, nursemaid, for each of their children, my brother Nikita and myself. They lived a life of fun and leisure. The women and children took their vacations in Harbin because it was too hot in Shanghai. The husbands traveled there on the week-ends and worked during the week. They had many friends and many good times. All of this changed as the Communists began to take over China. Wanting freedom and a good life for his family, my father booked first class passage to the USA. We were to travel with my mother's parents and were ready to begin a new life. Suddenly my parents received a letter from an uncle in Seattle, Washington warning them not to wait, but to book passage on the General Gordon. He told them that this would be the last ship to leave China for the USA because American Lines would be striking. My father did just that, but now we had third class passage. That is all that was left. The ship was packed. All of the women and children traveled in the hold where all of the cargo usually goes. I remember seeing wall to wall bunk beds with 2 people per bunk. My grandmother and brother were on top and my mom and I were on the bottom. It was dark, crowded, and stinky. Since my brother was just a year old guy, my grandmother tied him to her arm so that he would not fall off the bed at night. The men traveled on the passenger deck. The trip was rough and many, many people were very sick and confined to their cots. The women were given a bowl of rice each day for food and that was all. The men had better treatment and more food. I became very ill, but I was saved by my father and grandfather smuggling oranges to my mom and grandmother. My father or grandfather would take an orange and have it between their pants and waist. They would then go to the hole which the sailors use to slide down on. They would wait for either my mom or grandmother, although they too were so seasick, to come and stand by the pole on the lower level. Then they would release the orange and it would slide down their leg and down through the hole to the lower level where either my mom or grandmother would catch it. They then fed those oranges to me and that it what saved my life. I was told that they carried me very ill, listless and almost lifeless off the ship, but as we all know I survived. My brother, however, was well and full of life and activity. One of the sailors, a very large black man, took a liking to this lively little blond boy whose mom and grandmother were so ill. Each morning he would come and get him and take care of him all day. My mom said that at times he would let him climb the huge gate that covered the opening to the ocean. She would be so scared, but was too sick to do anything about it. Many spoke of the cute duo; a big black guy and his little blond companion. It was a blessing to have that dear man take such good care of my little brother.
This is a photo I found of Shanghai in the 1940's. We left in 1948.
This is a photo of the General Gordon.
As we came to the San Francisco Bay many of the passengers were allowed to go on deck to watch the ship go in. I remember so many people thrilled to see the beautiful bridge and the blue sky and the beautiful white city by the bay. They were sick and exhausted but so excited to begin a new life of freedom. I remember many falling to their knees and kissing the deck and exclaiming gratefulness to God for their safe journey.
When we arrived we were greeted by my grandmother's sister and her family who lived in Oakland. We stayed with them for about a month. After one week my father found a job working for the shipyards. After two weeks he bought a car and after three weeks he bought a little house. We moved to Richmond Annex and our journey in a new country began.
When we left China, my dad left his business, his home, and all of his things with his sister and her husband. They were to sell everything and send the money to him. Unfortunately, during the time that we were traveling by ship, my dad's brother -in- law had a heart attack and died. The communists came in and took everything away from his sister. She was a woman, after all, and women had no rights in China. And so, for the second time in his life, my father lost everything.
Like Nephi of old, I was born of goodly parents. I had the BEST parents that anyone could ever have or want. They were always kind and good to me and to each other. In all of my days with them, I never heard a quarrel or an argument. I never heard them raise their voice. I only saw and heard them do good things for each other, for their children and grandchildren, and for everyone they knew. They were loved by many and many of my friends, as we were growing up, wanted them to be their own parents.
My father George Alexis Skopichenko (Scope after he became a US citizen) was born on February 13, 1913 in Samara, Russia. His mother was a Countess and his father was a General in the military. His grandfather Zavadovky was the Military Governor of Warsaw at one time. When the communists took over Russia, about 1917, his parents and siblings together with my father, fled Russia via the Trans-Siberian railway. They had to leave quickly and without anything. They had to burn any identifying papers or documents because if they were found with anything that tied them to the royal family, they would have been immediately executed. No questions would have been asked. They did take some money and jewels with them that the ladies had sewn into the hems of their coats. This is all they had to start their new life in China. In fact, my family later had self-imposed memory loss. They couldn't remember dates of birthdays, anniversaries, or other important events. They "forgot" places and things. They were afraid of being found out and executed. They fled because they did not want to live under Communist rule. My mother, Olga Germanovna Popoff was born on June 5, 1913 in Harbin, China. She was born to Russian parents who lived in China because her father worked in the diplomatic service.
I was born in Shanghai, China on June 25, 1944 in St Mary's Hospital. At this time, my father was a businessman. He was the owner a very nice delicatessen/import/export store. They had a lovely home on Rue de Soeurs in the French Concession. Life was very good for them. They were quite wealthy and so they could have a "boy", a maid, and an Ama, nursemaid, for each of their children, my brother Nikita and myself. They lived a life of fun and leisure. The women and children took their vacations in Harbin because it was too hot in Shanghai. The husbands traveled there on the week-ends and worked during the week. They had many friends and many good times. All of this changed as the Communists began to take over China. Wanting freedom and a good life for his family, my father booked first class passage to the USA. We were to travel with my mother's parents and were ready to begin a new life. Suddenly my parents received a letter from an uncle in Seattle, Washington warning them not to wait, but to book passage on the General Gordon. He told them that this would be the last ship to leave China for the USA because American Lines would be striking. My father did just that, but now we had third class passage. That is all that was left. The ship was packed. All of the women and children traveled in the hold where all of the cargo usually goes. I remember seeing wall to wall bunk beds with 2 people per bunk. My grandmother and brother were on top and my mom and I were on the bottom. It was dark, crowded, and stinky. Since my brother was just a year old guy, my grandmother tied him to her arm so that he would not fall off the bed at night. The men traveled on the passenger deck. The trip was rough and many, many people were very sick and confined to their cots. The women were given a bowl of rice each day for food and that was all. The men had better treatment and more food. I became very ill, but I was saved by my father and grandfather smuggling oranges to my mom and grandmother. My father or grandfather would take an orange and have it between their pants and waist. They would then go to the hole which the sailors use to slide down on. They would wait for either my mom or grandmother, although they too were so seasick, to come and stand by the pole on the lower level. Then they would release the orange and it would slide down their leg and down through the hole to the lower level where either my mom or grandmother would catch it. They then fed those oranges to me and that it what saved my life. I was told that they carried me very ill, listless and almost lifeless off the ship, but as we all know I survived. My brother, however, was well and full of life and activity. One of the sailors, a very large black man, took a liking to this lively little blond boy whose mom and grandmother were so ill. Each morning he would come and get him and take care of him all day. My mom said that at times he would let him climb the huge gate that covered the opening to the ocean. She would be so scared, but was too sick to do anything about it. Many spoke of the cute duo; a big black guy and his little blond companion. It was a blessing to have that dear man take such good care of my little brother.
This is a photo I found of Shanghai in the 1940's. We left in 1948.
This is a photo of the General Gordon.
As we came to the San Francisco Bay many of the passengers were allowed to go on deck to watch the ship go in. I remember so many people thrilled to see the beautiful bridge and the blue sky and the beautiful white city by the bay. They were sick and exhausted but so excited to begin a new life of freedom. I remember many falling to their knees and kissing the deck and exclaiming gratefulness to God for their safe journey.
When we arrived we were greeted by my grandmother's sister and her family who lived in Oakland. We stayed with them for about a month. After one week my father found a job working for the shipyards. After two weeks he bought a car and after three weeks he bought a little house. We moved to Richmond Annex and our journey in a new country began.
When we left China, my dad left his business, his home, and all of his things with his sister and her husband. They were to sell everything and send the money to him. Unfortunately, during the time that we were traveling by ship, my dad's brother -in- law had a heart attack and died. The communists came in and took everything away from his sister. She was a woman, after all, and women had no rights in China. And so, for the second time in his life, my father lost everything.
Sunday, March 10, 2013
Another Snowy Day
Last week we had another storm pass through, but it didn't last long. By the next morning the roads were sorta clear and we had these lovely snow laden trees and bushes to look at on the way to the office.

In the office parking lot.
Our little Pirus is a great car that looks good, is comfortable, and gets terrific mileage. However, it sits so low to the ground that it is a terrible car for the snow. We have gotten stuck several times.
In the office parking lot.
Our little Pirus is a great car that looks good, is comfortable, and gets terrific mileage. However, it sits so low to the ground that it is a terrible car for the snow. We have gotten stuck several times.
Looking across the street, out the window, at my desk.
Wednesday, February 27, 2013
Montreal Temple
Today was one of those days. It was raining when we left for the temple and the rain soon turned to snow. In fact, it is supposed to snow about 15 " tonight. When we got inside the temple, I noticed a large bluish circular stain on my temple bag. Upon further investigation, I found that all of my temple clothing and the bag were wet with this blue liquid. I figured out that the windshield wiper fluid bottle had tipped over in the trunk of the car. Somehow the lid was not tight enough and so it leaked all over my stuff. Luckily, there was a dress and slip that I was able to borrow or I would have ended up sitting in the waiting room. The session was small and very nice. Just as we were finishing up, the matron handed me a sheet in French and asked me to do the remaining work in French. I was glad that I know enough of the language to be able to read it out loud and know what I'm saying.
After the temple, we went out to Montcalm for dinner. It was really nice to spend some time chatting with friends and eating a tasty meal.
Monday, February 25, 2013
Presents
Mail is something every missionary anxiously waits for and looks for. One of my responsibilities is the mail. Each day I sort the mail and the packages and put them into their proper zone for either the missionaries who come into the office during the week or the zone leaders to pick up. Those missionaries who come by often go to the mail first thing. If there is something for them, they are "stoked". They love to get mail. If there is a package for them, it is like Christmas. They can hardly wait to open it up. Canada mail is very expensive and so we don't use the mail much and have also told our children not to send anything. However, when and if we do get mail, we are as excited as the young missionaries.
The other day we got 2 packages on the same day. The first one was from Lana. It was actually a "little late" Christmas package. I was excited to find a beautiful scarf and great sunglasses. Papa was happy to find a tin of nuts. Of course, he is sharing them with me. What a thoughtful gift! I love the scarf and will use it a lot. It is perfect. I really like the glasses too and of course we both love the nuts. It was so unusual to get one package, but then I had another one to open on the very same day. It was this lovely bag made by our next door neighbor Nelda. The bag is made of pure wool and the lining is a great French cotton print. I really, really like it and think that was sooooo nice of her to make it for me. I am lucky that I have been so spoiled.
The other day we got 2 packages on the same day. The first one was from Lana. It was actually a "little late" Christmas package. I was excited to find a beautiful scarf and great sunglasses. Papa was happy to find a tin of nuts. Of course, he is sharing them with me. What a thoughtful gift! I love the scarf and will use it a lot. It is perfect. I really like the glasses too and of course we both love the nuts. It was so unusual to get one package, but then I had another one to open on the very same day. It was this lovely bag made by our next door neighbor Nelda. The bag is made of pure wool and the lining is a great French cotton print. I really, really like it and think that was sooooo nice of her to make it for me. I am lucky that I have been so spoiled.
Saturday, February 23, 2013
Valentines, orchids, and zone council
I know Valentines Day is long past, but I forgot to post these photos. We have become quite good friends with the Howards and so we went out to dinner with them to celebrate Valentines Day. The Howards are serving their mission here working with CES and the young adult center. They have such a fun calling. It is what we did in France, but their center is already functioning and they have an entire building with a chapel in the basement, a gym, classrooms, etc. In fact, the mission office is on the third floor of this building.
Elder Howard was a Bank Vice President, international services specialist, energy lender and also worked in treasury services. Sister Howard taught at Robert Morris University in Pittsburg and also at Lone Star College in Houston. This wonderful couple is lots of fun. They are bright, funny, and cosmopolitan in outlook. They have lived all over the world including Mexico City, London, and Paris. We enjoy going on outings with them, shopping, playing games, and just spending time together .
Elder Conway and Papa listening so carefully to a conference from SLC that they participated in.
More orchid pictures; 8 blooms on the first one and the 2nd one has begun to bloom too.
Every month the zone leaders participate in a zone council where they study together and with the President. After a late lunch, they come to the office and pick up their supplies which they have ordered from me the week before. I get their supplies in order and all packed up. Some of the orders are very large and it takes me about 4 days to get them all ready. There are 5 zones and I try to do a bit each day. They also pick up their boxes of Books of Mormon at this time. I have each box labeled and ready to go when they arrive. We always have a good chat when they're at the office too. It's the best part of they day. Below are Elders Fernandez (Utah), Umana (Chili), Mieville (France), and Godoy (Spain).
Next we have Elders Christensen, Reid, Willardson and Talbot. USA and Canada.
Elders McMurrin, Rasmussen, Prawitt, and Laguan.
Elder Rasmussen just hanging out while Elder Olsen helps Elder Arhets fill out forms, etc because his car was stolen the other day. It's just awful that someone would steal anything.
Cute Frenchie!
Buddies forever
Our mission is growing by leaps and bounds as are missions all over the world. I was excited to read yesterday that there are 85 new missions worldwide. Last Tuesday we got 4 new sister missionaries. Next Wednesday we will get 7 more missionaries and in early March we will get 24 more. That is a lot. It also means a lot more work for us; training, getting folders and phones ready, renting new apartments, furnishing and putting supplies into apartments, getting cars, etc etc etc. We are excited for the growth though. It will be awesome.
Elder Howard was a Bank Vice President, international services specialist, energy lender and also worked in treasury services. Sister Howard taught at Robert Morris University in Pittsburg and also at Lone Star College in Houston. This wonderful couple is lots of fun. They are bright, funny, and cosmopolitan in outlook. They have lived all over the world including Mexico City, London, and Paris. We enjoy going on outings with them, shopping, playing games, and just spending time together .
I'm posting more photos of my orchids. They are doing so well. The second plant has lots of little buds.
Elder Conway and Papa listening so carefully to a conference from SLC that they participated in.
More orchid pictures; 8 blooms on the first one and the 2nd one has begun to bloom too.
Every month the zone leaders participate in a zone council where they study together and with the President. After a late lunch, they come to the office and pick up their supplies which they have ordered from me the week before. I get their supplies in order and all packed up. Some of the orders are very large and it takes me about 4 days to get them all ready. There are 5 zones and I try to do a bit each day. They also pick up their boxes of Books of Mormon at this time. I have each box labeled and ready to go when they arrive. We always have a good chat when they're at the office too. It's the best part of they day. Below are Elders Fernandez (Utah), Umana (Chili), Mieville (France), and Godoy (Spain).
Next we have Elders Christensen, Reid, Willardson and Talbot. USA and Canada.
Elders McMurrin, Rasmussen, Prawitt, and Laguan.
Elder Rasmussen just hanging out while Elder Olsen helps Elder Arhets fill out forms, etc because his car was stolen the other day. It's just awful that someone would steal anything.
Cute Frenchie!
Buddies forever
Our mission is growing by leaps and bounds as are missions all over the world. I was excited to read yesterday that there are 85 new missions worldwide. Last Tuesday we got 4 new sister missionaries. Next Wednesday we will get 7 more missionaries and in early March we will get 24 more. That is a lot. It also means a lot more work for us; training, getting folders and phones ready, renting new apartments, furnishing and putting supplies into apartments, getting cars, etc etc etc. We are excited for the growth though. It will be awesome.
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